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That's nice of her

Bc my fingers were on fire

1:35 PM

I will admit i do have abit of anger issues

You just need to consider people having/identifying as DID can react in a way you will not expect or like

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1:36 PM

If you don't like it, you can just stay away from those places (edited)

having an understanding of as many points of view of plurality is a good thing tho imho

It wasnt a DID community but i now know i definetly should work on my anger issues

so this sounds like a win to me, in the end.

It's easy to misjudge one's intention, especially just through text. Also, remember that even if someone actually is a dick to you, you shouldn't just give it back to them.

well...

Ale𝕏andra 🍄🐈

having an understanding of as many points of view of plurality is a good thing tho imho

Yes but that requires certain understanding and patience, which lolcery currently lacks it seems

I personally avoid general plural servers because I can only handle them for a short period of time. I do like going elsewhere to learn more about the server and its server culture, but I can't stick around for long

Deleted User

Yes but that requires certain understanding and patience, which lolcery currently lacks it seems

gotta gain the experience somehow!

In one DID/OSDD server I asked for permission to pass as a singlet and it drove me insane Not talking about tulpas on my tulpa account- I hate it a lot (edited)

It wasnt even a plural server it was just a server i was in

if the one we were on was any indication, general plural servers are the worst

Yea i dont think the different plural communities mix well do they

1:40 PM

What are examples of OSDD

Ale𝕏andra 🍄🐈

gotta gain the experience somehow!

I think it requires emotional maturity

1:40 PM

and he did mention he has anger issues

VIXIE | 👻

if the one we were on was any indication, general plural servers are the worst

Well the thing is, we don't know how bad the exclusive DID/OSDD pockets are in the secret rooms

A long kiss goodnight

I personally avoid general plural servers because I can only handle them for a short period of time. I do like going elsewhere to learn more about the server and its server culture, but I can't stick around for long

Well, I feel those places could drain people fast from emotional capacity. I might have relatively high capacity but I'd rather keep it for friends.

A long kiss goodnight

Well the thing is, we don't know how bad the exclusive DID/OSDD pockets are in the secret rooms

oh dear!

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and he did mention he has anger issues

fair, maybe it's not the right time to get the benefit then

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1:41 PM

lurking is a superpower

I still lurk did exclusive servers

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You can't lurk in Plural Nest anymore

1:41 PM

I'm very bitter about that

Deleted User

I still lurk did exclusive servers

I wonder for what

But uh yea

just occasionally to see if anything changed

1:43 PM

out of curiosity to see if there is a positive trend

1:43 PM

That's a wishful thinking, I think.

1:43 PM

But no, people still repeat unhealthy ideas

You may not think This based on the story i just told u but im actually really good at letting ppl vent

Pure curiosity, hm?

Yeah I don't wish really, just curious

1:43 PM

This place did change over years though

And im really open to other peoples problems

berockly (TTG)

And im really open to other peoples problems

It seems you like to think that way, but you lack empathetic capability to understand why someone doesn't want to be called "bro"

I think its more abt the context

1:45 PM

Like i was in a playful joking mood and thatjjust

1:45 PM

Idk

1:45 PM

Point is i need to work on thag

1:45 PM

That*

Being open to other's problems, and actually having the requisite experience, are two different things. A mindset of wanting to learn and improve will see you right eventually, though, I think.

I agree with Cerys

berockly (TTG)

And im really open to other peoples problems

You also seem to have a high level of emotional capacity, btw. But you might not notice running out of it because of that. Be careful with attaching to people problems, everyone has their limit.

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The will to improve is harder to acquire than the experience.

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Just be mindful that there is something happening to a person you don't know and don't judge them for that and you will get far

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Cerys

The will to improve is harder to acquire than the experience.

I actually love trying to improve myself

1:47 PM

For me its more abt lazyness

1:47 PM

Thats my problem

1:47 PM

But working on that too

Today after listening to proxi and Vixie talking I actually reminded myself of some relationships that actually might have drained me out of emotional capacity. I have never interpreted it before that way since the concept itself is relatively new for me.

How valid is discord puppeting

Mhm, not being aware of that often leads to compassion fatigue

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To me idk how valid it seems

Everything you use for personality forcing is valid

1:52 PM

Puppeting is a form of personality forcing

Any tips to make it more effective?

A good way to make it more effective is probably to see it as valid!

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Sometimes I'll ask what my tulpas want to say, and then type it on discord/on the forums

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berockly (TTG)

Any tips to make it more effective?

Just focus on enjoying time you spend together with your tulpa.

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Suddenly i feel nervous for no reason

I think the biggest advantage to parroting and puppeting is it takes away any anxiety over if they're you or not and allows you to focus on forcing.

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So basically your asking try to focus on it from lynn's perspective?

A long kiss goodnight

I think the biggest advantage to parroting and puppeting is it takes away any anxiety over if they're you or not and allows you to focus on forcing.

It lets you to "just do it"!

berockly (TTG)

So basically your asking try to focus on it from lynn's perspective?

If you want too. There's not really a wrong way to parrot and puppet.

Almighty

1:57 PM

Alrighty*

I think it can be specific as scripted movement or as loose as you vaguely assuming how she will react

I found this document

2:03 PM

docs.google.com/document/d/1jTmZ0bkWkNYwKJL8L0xkectBOwlkp7SLgkb0lT8u444/edit#

2:03 PM

Is someone able to make that a shareable link or smth

An example for both: For scripted movement, it could look like you writing out or thinking, "Nyx comes over to me, proudly raises the glass as a huge grin spreads across her face". It may feel a lot like roleplaying, but that's kind of the idea. For expectations, you may say something and think im the back of your mind "I bet Nyx would like that". As a result, you expect Nyx to smile in response.

Typed it in wrong

2:04 PM

Ill do it later

What's the document?

2:05 PM

I couldn't access it based on the link

berockly (TTG)

docs.google.com/document/d/1jTmZ0bkWkNYwKJL8L0xkectBOwlkp7SLgkb0lT8u444/edit#

https://tenor.com/view/epic-embed-fail-ryan-gosling-cereal-embed-failure-laugh-at-this-user-gif-20627924

2:06 PM

LMFAO

2:06 PM

THATS IRONIC

2:06 PM

@berockly (TTG)

LOL

A long kiss goodnight

What's the document?

Basically a 193 paged document about tulpas

2:13 PM

From tulpa.info

Tulpa's guide?

I searched up tulpamancy did and found it

2:14 PM

Diy*

Yeah, that's probably Tulpa's guide

Yeah, that's it

Tulpa's DIY Guide? I like that one.

Link it for me

Tulpa is a tulpa if I recall.

Wish i could print it out (edited)

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jTmZ0bkWkNYwKJL8L0xkectBOwIkp7SLgkb0lT8u444/edit#

Tulpa's DIY Guide to Tulpamancy v4

Tulpa's Complete DIY Guide to Tulpamancy Fourth Edition Rules! (V4.0) AKA Book of Tulpa: the Extremely Long One. Hello! Welcome to the longest guide on tulpas as of the time of writing! This is a technical manual, meaning it is dense, informative, and does not rely on any particular viewpoint....

Ty

berockly (TTG)

Wish i could print it out (edited)

My dad printed out a 200 page document on dnd shit